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Amrita's avatar

This is so helpful and reflective. I'd love to have this conversation with some of my friends.

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Maria Santiago's avatar

Maybe that friend has ADHD! :p Pretty common for us neurodivergent folk to be bad at texting, though thankfully this isn’t my problem.

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Olivia Lara Owen's avatar

Whoosh. Brilliant piece. My friends and I call a version of this the “friendship mountain” with the peak being the inner circle, the ones who have the highest level of access with a high level of reciprocity. I love the concept of the jacuzzi / swimming pool (group hang). Thank you so much!

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Diem's avatar

Great post. I have been feeling lots of my friendships shift and morph and have been finding it challenging. Some good practical tips which I really appreciate.

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