The truth is, it’s even harder for young men today to work on themselves, let alone find a safe community with whom to be vulnerable about it. Stop focusing on trying to “look better” and instead shift the mission a little by fortifying who you are and who you’d like to be. Once you start taking that on as your project, hotness just sort of happens. It just starts seeping out of your pores and swirling in the airspace around you like a high pollen count. But where to start?
I would also add getting a $100+ haircut from someone who’s comfortable working with “whatever you think would look good on me,” buy all the products they recommend and use them the way they teach you. Incredible how much of an instant difference this can make
Solid list. 100% agree w/kindness and think it goes a step further: don't be being rushed, be effortless. If someone is in your way boarding the plane don't rush them, give them the time. If a car is slow to pull out of a parking spot take a deep breath, give them the time. By not getting frazzled with the day to day inconveniences and giving people that extra beat of time you will be much more relaxed and project an air of "effortlessness" which is a powerful thing.
I would also add getting a $100+ haircut from someone who’s comfortable working with “whatever you think would look good on me,” buy all the products they recommend and use them the way they teach you. Incredible how much of an instant difference this can make
a good haircut can change everything!!!
Solid list. 100% agree w/kindness and think it goes a step further: don't be being rushed, be effortless. If someone is in your way boarding the plane don't rush them, give them the time. If a car is slow to pull out of a parking spot take a deep breath, give them the time. By not getting frazzled with the day to day inconveniences and giving people that extra beat of time you will be much more relaxed and project an air of "effortlessness" which is a powerful thing.
woah — this was great. thank you!