I’m ok with being single, but I have a hard time not having a go-to person to rely on when I don’t have plans on a Saturday night or someone to watch movies with on the weekends…Is codependency something you can change about yourself? Or should I just accept it and learn to cope with being alone?
Unpacking codependency is easier said than done. And articulating my own experience with codependency has always been a challenge. Thank you for this beautifully written and incredibly insightful nugget. Working on becoming my own best friend is scary as hell but I’m not turning back!
I've gone through some cycles of thoughts where I'm confident in the fact that I can be alone and am actively getting out of my comfort zone by trying to hang out with new people in a new city. But then part of me is also like...am I diving into these new situations with new people to not be alone. But then also going back to thinking that I've actually been spending a lot of time on my own, etc , etc. Lol never ending
I completely relate and understand you. I am in the same situation
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