In the closing stanzas of “All-American Bitch”, the intro track off Olivia Rodrigo’s sophomore album GUTS, she layers descriptions of what it means to be “all-American” today. Her muse is “grateful all the time.” She’s “sexy.” She’s “kind.” But most importantly, she sings in her final lyrics on the song, she’s “pretty when [she] cries.” Rodrigo offers no further support as to why this final attribute is as essential as the aforementioned qualities but, at once, I understand.
Sep 20, 2023Liked by Brendon Holder, mixed feelings
wow this essay gave me so much to think about!! especially the intersection with race and vulnerability, i.e what emotions are “allowed” for black and brown people to express. also the point about presenting yourself egregiously well for therapy as a way of seeking control over your mental and how your therapist views it, was so interestsing!! thank you so much!!
wow this essay gave me so much to think about!! especially the intersection with race and vulnerability, i.e what emotions are “allowed” for black and brown people to express. also the point about presenting yourself egregiously well for therapy as a way of seeking control over your mental and how your therapist views it, was so interestsing!! thank you so much!!
Emotional journey for everyone