So, I've liked guys before, like a lot, and many, too! Every time the same thing happens. First I realize: hey, he's kinda cute. As soon as they like me back the problem occurs: I find them not attractive — up to disgusting — so I drop them…I'm a highly sensitive person and care a lot for others but for some reason these situations leave me CARELESS, literally couldn't care less. Do I hate affection, commitment, or even men, or is it just my chart being mainly libra? What do I do if I lose interest as soon as I'm liked back? — y.libra, she/her
Great response. I always find it difficult to strike a balance between maintaining independence and giving myself fully and wholeheartedly to a relationship. Being put off by reciprocal interest is definitely one of my triggers to maintain independence. But I really like this idea of a dependency paradox. Relationships definitely should strengthen independence, I want one of these!
Great response. I always find it difficult to strike a balance between maintaining independence and giving myself fully and wholeheartedly to a relationship. Being put off by reciprocal interest is definitely one of my triggers to maintain independence. But I really like this idea of a dependency paradox. Relationships definitely should strengthen independence, I want one of these!