Archive - mixed feelings

I Can’t Respond to Your Constant Deluge of TikTok Videos

"At the end of the work day I am so exhausted from staring at my screens...that I am so depleted I barely have mental space to respond to text…

Jul 9 •

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June 2025

KATSEYE on Being Underrated, Lexapro, & Hating Babies (Kind Of)

Having beef with slow walkers. Perfectionism. Garlic aioli. Hannah Montana reruns. Zapping the clamminess off your hands.Yes, mfers, we got…

Jun 26 •

what it actually takes to make a k-pop song

No one is able to discern what qualifies as artistic identity from the stars they pay money to hear and what is the product of a publicity team’s focus…

Jun 6 •

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May 2025

a new era of fan merch is here

If you're like me, your collection of concert tees is both a source of pride and a bit of a predicament. Overflowing drawers of cotton commemoratives…

May 22 •

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i can’t shake this deep fear that my partner still sees me as a woman

"I recently came out as nonbinary. But there’s one thing that’s eating away at me: I’m AFAB and my partner is a cis man...I can’t shake this deep, deep…

May 15 •

April 2025

video games are fanfiction's next frontier

If fanfic is the horny nationals, then fan games are the horny Olympics.

Apr 17 •

what if my friend group likes my new friend more than me?

"On multiple occasions, I've invited a friend to hang out with another friend group. After seeing them get along really well, I get insanely jealous…"

Apr 15 •

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Amalie MacGowan

soul bonding with dove cameron

Dove Cameron has spent many hours googling Kristen Stewart's coffee order, researching shower heads, binging Drag Race, and stanning the Phantom from…

Apr 10 •

sims-maxxing in the apocalypse

inside the complicated world of custom content mods in the Sims 4, which offer both rebellion and escape.

Apr 7 •

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the feminine urge to ache

i feel happier, lighter, but my friend has stayed the same

Apr 4 •

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"i'm looking for places to shop for vintage that aren't price-gouging???"

The rise in popularity and democratization of reselling has opened the floodgates to those ready to make a quick buck and take advantage of the system…

Apr 3 •

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Sustainable Baddie

March 2025

be so fr: do you still have clothing from your ex?

How long do you hold onto clothing from an ex? A couple days, a few months, a year? Based on a survey we did on Instagram earlier this week, the results…

Mar 31 •

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