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Inde Navarrette Desperately Seeks Someone to Nerd Out With
Obsession's break-out star Inde Navarrette does our Hyperspecific questionnaire, in which she naturally brings up all of my favorite conversation…
Jun 18
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May 2026
I Can’t Get Over My Queer Friendship Breakup. What Went Wrong?
dear mfers,
May 14
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January 2026
Can Someone Explain the Omegaverse to Me Slowly?
For a Genre Most Known for “Mpreg Smut,” the Omegaverse Might Actually Be a Tool for Authors to Unpack Oppressive Social Structures.
Jan 21
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AJ
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December 2025
My Lesbian Dating Wrapped
A highly-analytical, data-driven account of everything I learned from my first year as an out lesbian.
Dec 22, 2025
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malavika kannan
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the unhinged gift guide is back 😈
Every year, mixed feelings corrals our team and our most delightfully chaotic friends to bring you the Unhinged Gift Guide — a roundup of presents no…
Dec 11, 2025
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The Scandals, Chaos, & Next-Gen Soap Operas of Roblox-Hollywood
The high-stim world of Roblox "TV" has many fans. For many, the allure of this content is the simplicity and the stimuli, SpongeBob rewired for a…
Dec 3, 2025
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Kieran Press-Reynolds
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November 2025
My Friends Think I Should Go “No Contact” With My Parents, but That Feels Like Such a Western POV
After my parents (finally) admitted they’re uncomfortable with my queerness, my queer relationship, and well, queer people in general, most of my…
Nov 11, 2025
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October 2025
DON'T Talk to Adéla About Rick Owens, Sneezing, or Living Without Edward Cullen
Adéla is a burgeoning pop star if I’ve ever seen one. When she comes to our studio, she wears 8-inch platform black leather heels shaped like lobster…
Oct 28, 2025
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Audrey Hobert on Nicotine Gum: "It's Less of a Coping Mechanism and More of a Great Passion"
If it were 2007, you might have described Audrey Hobert as “awkward,” but you’d be wrong. She’s not a wallflower, comfortable only in the most dimly-lit…
Oct 23, 2025
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Late-Stage Fandom Is Following Your Faves off a Cliff
It was last week after "The Life of a Showgirl" proved to be her most poorly written, thematically vapid, and woefully unrelatable album (IMO) that I…
Oct 10, 2025
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Catherine Mhloyi
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Bktherula Has a Skibidi Toilet in Her House
Bk’s only 23, which was shocking to me, until I remembered that the rapper has been sharing music to SoundCloud since age 13, and started gaining a…
Oct 9, 2025
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The Gayest Thing You Can Do Is Have an Archenemy
Lex Luthor's discomfort with Superman’s very existence, his belief that Superman is an abomination he must be rid of, reminds me of the first time the…
Oct 7, 2025
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AJ
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