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I understand the desire to move towards more inclusive language, but sometimes it feels like they're trying to camouflage into a queer space. Am I…

May 25

I used to hate the term biological clock, but lately I feel like it's really been ticking. How do I get over the fact I'm doing some work first to give…

May 4

I’m ok with being single, but I have a hard time not having a go-to person to rely on when I don’t have plans on a Saturday night or someone to watch…

Apr 19

For a year, I worked on not being such a doormat. It worked! I feel more opinionated and confident. But I've been hearing from friends and family that…

Mar 29

It has been a year since that conversation and I still think about her almost every day. I beat myself up for choosing to end things instead of working…

Mar 9

i feel like i'm hiding my queer identity because i change the way i dress to get people to like me...

Feb 24

I am a plus-sized/fat person who loves style, but being fat and loving clothes can be emotionally rough....I feel like I've taken a huge step backward…

Jan 25

I often feel responsible for creating a safe environment for my friends and making sure everyone around me has a good time....Former friends have told…

Jan 4

I moved to a new city recently and have made a few friends. The thing is I'm not really close to any of them. It's been a few months and I’m feeling…

Dec 16, 2022

I don’t expect him to be like me, he’s just on the complete opposite end of the spectrum. I just don’t know how to handle it...I’ve realized that it’s…

Nov 23, 2022

I recently came out to a couple of people who are close to me, but not to everyone I know. My mom doesn’t really ‘get it’ but the other people I’ve told…

Nov 2, 2022

How can I be comfortable with my Japanese and white identity? I feel like I don’t belong anywhere and no one in my family truly understands me and knows…

Oct 12, 2022

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