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am I an asshole for wanting to date someone who makes more money than me?
"I am a pretty career-oriented person and I after paying off my student loans, I now make enough money to support my lifestyle. I’ve dated a lot of…
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Your Rich BFF
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am i not a “girls’ girl” if I’m jealous of my best friend?
"It pains me to admit (even anonymously) that i am sometimes so jealous of my best friend. If we aren't achieving - in whatever, relationships, work…
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why don't we talk about boyhood?
In todays' advice column pod, the mixed feelings team is joined by HEAVIES writer and former GQ editor Chris Gayomali and Them lifestyle editor Quispe…
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Chris Gayomali
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how do i "glow up" as a man?
The truth is, it’s even harder for young men today to work on themselves, let alone find a safe community with whom to be vulnerable about it. Stop…
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Chris Gayomali
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how do I know my gossipy friend isn't gossiping about ME?
"I recently caught up with a friend I’ve had for several years. She ended up venting about all of her other friends that I’ve met and started really…
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why does that unfollow bother me so much?
To follow or unfollow? That is the question! I recently had an acquaintance use both their business account and personal account to unfollow me! Ouch…
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Casey Lewis
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[story time] what do you do when someone else's mental health becomes a burden on your own?
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the feminine urge to ache
"What do I do when my friend's mental health is becoming a burden on mine?" Writer Bel Hawkins answers.
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Bel Hawkins
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is it possible to be a lesbian but be in love with one specific man?
Four of our favorite NYC writers answer calls for advice: "How do I reconcile loving my cis-het boyfriend and my burning desire to be with a woman?" and…
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i practically begged my therapist to diagnose me
Rayne Fisher-Quann pens a thoughtful response to a reader who found themselves preoccupied with receiving a diagnosis from their psychiatrist as an…
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rayne fisher-quann
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am i the asshole bc i don't want my s/o to fix her teeth?
One of the main things that made me fall in love with her was her smile...I feel like the slight crookedness of her teeth makes her smile…beautiful and…
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i can’t always be there for my “crisis friend”
"How do you deal with your lifelong best friend who now lives a very different life than you? She’s in a constant state of crisis while I’m finally at a…
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