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i can’t always be there for my “crisis friend”
"How do you deal with your lifelong best friend who now lives a very different life than you? She’s in a constant state of crisis while I’m finally at a…
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kate lindsay
can i manage infatuation in a "healthy" way?
I learned a new word recently called "limerence," which is, essentially, the state of being obsessively infatuated with someone marked by intrusive…
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what should the beginning of a relationship feel like?
"This whole situation has left me wondering what 'giving someone a chance' really means and if I made the right choice. What should the beginning of a…
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my friend and i are growing apart. should we break up?
Just because a friendship is long-term doesn't mean it has to be long haul. We asked three of our fave New Yorkers how to handle a faltering friendship…
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i'm (f28) in love with my best friend (f27)
I (f28) have been friends with my best friend (f27) since we were 12, but in the last couple years I kinda get the vibe that she’s into me…but we both…
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Eva Reign
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AITA for thinking my partner and I need to like the same things?
I've noticed something that's starting to feel consistent with my new partner: they hold really strong opinions about art/movies/music/books I like, in…
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it feels like my body is going "out of style" again
I feel like I've taken a huge step backward in terms of my body acceptance...Even with all the emotional work I've done, I don't know if I've ever…
i've left my true style behind to look like everyone else on my FYP...
Many of the decisions I make when buying clothes or getting dressed are intrinsically hinged on something I saw online. I find myself shopping for…
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friends are dropping out of my life like flies
Part of me feels like I should crawl into a ditch until I'm fully healed and can never hurt a friend's feelings again. I have taken accountability for…
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so, what's the etiquette around college acceptances?
It’s September, so the common app has once again reared its expensive little head. If you have decided to go to college, you may not be thinking about…
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i want to be openly bi, but for what reason at this point?
I've finally admitted to myself I’m bi and I feel so proud about it! I want to tell people and just be open about it, but for what reason at this point…
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is it ok to psychoanalyze your friends?
+ a reflection on the past year of mixed feelings </3
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