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I Can’t Get Over My Queer Friendship Breakup. What Went Wrong?
dear mfers,
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My Friends Think I Should Go “No Contact” With My Parents, but That Feels Like Such a Western POV
I'm at odds with two different versions of myself.
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I Can’t Respond to Your Constant Deluge of TikTok Videos
Should I improve my text-back abilities or should my friends understand?
 • mixed feelings and Delia Cai
i can’t shake this deep fear that my partner still sees me as a woman
"I recently came out as nonbinary. But there’s one thing that’s eating away at me: I’m AFAB and my partner is a cis man...I can’t shake this deep, deep…
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what if my friend group likes my new friend more than me?
"On multiple occasions, I've invited a friend to hang out with another friend group. After seeing them get along really well, I get insanely jealous…"
 • mixed feelings and Amalie MacGowan
the feminine urge to ache
i feel happier, lighter, but my friend has stayed the same
 • mixed feelings and Bel Hawkins
“it's kind of a turn-off to be 'better' than my partner”
"[My boyfriend] while being incredibly kind, smart, and witty...has no ambition to do...anything!...We've been together for three years, and he still…
 • mixed feelings and Bel Hawkins
am I an asshole for wanting to date someone who makes more money than me?
"I am a pretty career-oriented person and I after paying off my student loans, I now make enough money to support my lifestyle. I’ve dated a lot of…
 • mixed feelings and Your Rich BFF
am i not a “girls’ girl” if I’m jealous of my best friend?
"It pains me to admit (even anonymously) that i am sometimes so jealous of my best friend. If we aren't achieving - in whatever, relationships, work…
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why don't we talk about boyhood?
boy rooms, dysmorphia, dysphoria, and more
 • mixed feelings and Chris Gayomali
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how do i "glow up" as a man?
The truth is, it’s even harder for young men today to work on themselves, let alone find a safe community with whom to be vulnerable about it. Stop…
 • mixed feelings and Chris Gayomali
how do I know my gossipy friend isn't gossiping about ME?
"I recently caught up with a friend I’ve had for several years. She ended up venting about all of her other friends that I’ve met and started really…
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